I am guilty. There are words I overuse. This little thing caught my eye on Twitter, posted by Word of the Day App.
Stop saying “Very”
It was accompanied by this graphic as a way to help curb our bad habits.

Now I am thinking about the best word to use to tell you I am very frustrated. Drop your alternative suggestions in the comments.
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I confess that I often do this. I also use the word ‘Actually’ to excess, but I refuse to apologise for doing that! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Now I wonder if Iam being lazy. I don’t feel like frustrated describes how I feel. That ‘very’ brings it home. I never noticed you overusing ‘actually’. Interesting.
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It is mostly in speech that I use the word, Maggie.
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I think the alternative are hard to master. So very frustrated is fine by me.
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Sometimes ‘very’ is just the right emphasis.
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I agree.
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I never thought about using very, but now I will. I don’t know why people say ‘like’ so much. It’s irritating. For frustrated, how about Grrrrr! haha. not really, but that’s what I say to myself when it happens. 🙂
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The over usage and incorrect usage of ‘like’ drives me crazy! I do like using Grrrr as it might be all that fits the bill sometimes.
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I only notice ‘very’ when it’s misused like in ‘very unique’ or ‘very alone’ – I’d be OK with ‘very lonely.’
Very frustrated or ‘exasperated’ is something I remember from one particular employee of mine about 20 years ago. I think I knew every synonym there is. Then I started looking for euphemisms for ‘fired.’
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Exasperated! Nice choice! Thanks for the laugh, too. It is appreciated. 🫵🏻🔥
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Sometimes I use it, but I am aware of the peril, lol. If you are very frustrated, perhaps you are ACTUALLY angry!
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Perhaps you are correct!
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The simple word “that” is often superfluous as well. I had an editor many years ago who said at least of the thats could be eliminated without changing the meaning of anything in the sentence. So I automatically do a that-check!
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Another of my downfalls!
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Flusterated
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Ha! I love it, John!
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😊
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I’ve read about not using, very, in writing, but I don’t think it’s a big deal to use in normal conversation or conversational writing. That’s how most people talk. Sometimes I’ve used the word, “super,” like very. Still, it’s good to know other words. I thought crotchety meant chronically grumpy. It might be fun to call someone malapert since the average very rude person probably doesn’t know what it means.
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I am not sure these are dictionary definitions but I suppose they get the point across. My dad always referred to what he considered big words as “fifty dollar words”. I need to use more of those!
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Maybe you are just discombobulated!
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That is a distinct possibility!
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Very good advice.
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I saw what you did there.
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😉
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Sometimes a “fancy” word just doesn’t fit and sounds odd in dialogue or it can come across as if are talking down to the readers.
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I agree. I know I have my fair share of words I overuse, though.
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I am guilty/fond of using very whenever I want to emphasize something. When I put my writing through Grammarly, it invariably suggests alternatives. I use the suggestions sometimes. But often, I stick to my use of “very” to the annoyance of the “Correctness” feature of Grammarly!
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Grammarly can certainly be high fallutin when it wants to be!
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Replacing a 50c word with a $20 word doesn’t necessarily make the meaning clear. Clarity is better than big ticket words.
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I agree. I think they are really trying to get the point across about overusing certain words.
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You’re Frustrated, = you’re discombobulated. Your Guilty= You’re responsible…. You’re perfect
, really.💜💜
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I am hanging on to those last three words, Willow! 😉
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I very much try to not say “very” very often!
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My thoughts exactly!
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