I took a couple of mental health days which for me meant no blogging and very little reading of blogs. Sometimes I need to cocoon and sort out my thoughts. Linda’s SoCS prompt is often a good way to dip my toe back in the water. If you are curious what SoCS is all about, check out Linda’s post for all the details.
Today’s prompt is as follows:
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “whatever.” Use the word “whatever” any way you’d like. Bonus points if you start your post with it. Have fun!
“Whatever will be, will be”
This is the phrase, sung by Doris Day of course, that has taken up residence in my head this morning.
Yesterday would have been my sister’s 73rd birthday. I miss her terribly. Yesterday was also the day my daughter’s family made the difficult decision to say goodbye to their cat who was suffering from cancer.
When you live in a close family, you also develop a bond with your family’s pets. To be so far away and watch them go through this and try to help a four-year-old come to terms with this loss has been heartbreaking.
So many worries this week with people I love and care about. It’s harder when everything is out of our control. But that is life, isn’t it? We can go about our days feeling in control of everything, but then, one day, we realize we can only control so much.
Today I will spend my day drawing a picture of a beloved cat to help heal my little girl’s broken heart.
That’s so sad. Hugs Maggie 💗
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Thank you, Paula.
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I’m sorry for your loss Maggie and also the family’s loss of their pet. It is hard on a child.
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It has been so hard. Thank you, Di.
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Aww, so sad especially for a small child to understand this decision. Hugs to you and her too. 🫂🤗
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Drawing a picture of the cat is a sweet way to help with the process of grieving and healing. I know about the loss of a sister. I miss mine too. I’m surprised I didn’t think of the Doris Day song, though the sentiment showed up. That song was meant for you, today. She had a soothing voice and loved the family pets, too. Sending hugs on angel wings.
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Your post made me tear up. Thank you, JoAnna. ❤️
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I’m sorry for the loss of kitty. I can only imagine how sad your four year old granddaughter is in the moment. I hope your drawing wraps big hugs around her.
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Thank you. It is one of life’s hardest lessons for a child.
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Problems come together, unfortunately. Drawing and being together will be healing together. Regards.
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Thank you, Lakshmi.
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So sorry on all counts Maggie. I lost my brother a few years ago, and there isn’t a day I don’t think about him. 💕❤️💕
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Thank you for your kindness, Dorothy. ❤️
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I understand the heartbreak of losing a pet. The best we can do is keep them in our hearts until we meet again.
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Thank you for that kind wisdom, John.
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Sad times for you and your family. But the cat-drawing will be a great project for all involved.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thanks, Pete.
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Pets are like that. You think “it’s just a cat,” but it hurts worse than if a person died.
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It does, John. This has been such a hard week.
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Sending loving hugs as you are dealing with grief. Your grandaughter will adore the picture.
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Thank you, Lauren.
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It is always a difficult decision when we have to say goodbye to our pets. So sorry for the loss to you and your family Maggie.😻
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Thank you, Peter.
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Sending you hugs, you are a beautiful and kind Grandma and person your granddaughter is blessed to have you.💜💜
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Thank you, Willow. How are things at your house?
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Not good!
https://willowdot21.wordpress.com/2022/02/18/2022-what-are-you-going-to-throw-at-us-next-biopsy-blues/
Then just to put the tin hat on it all, tonight someone has driven into my car and damaged the back passenger side happy days!
Parked out the back properly and who ever did it didn’t stop ! It’s going to be expensive! I am not a happy bunny.💜💜
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Oh, Willow! How difficult! There are times when everything seems to pile on at once and it feels as if we might smother. I am keeping you all in my prayers. I am sorry about your car. Does anyone have CCTV that might have captured it?
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Thank you Maggie it’s good to know that you are keeping us in your prayers , I do feel we need some devine intervention! I do hope my reply before was not snappy.
There is chap behind us with CCTV so fingers crossed . 💜💜💜💜
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I did not think it snappy at all. I understand the frustration. Good luck with the neighbor.
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Thank you 💜💜
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Of course. ❤️
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Losing a pet is often a child’s first experience of death and it is devastating. I am glad for the drawing and for the ability she will have to mention her cat as often as she needs to in the future. My grandchildren are still missing the dog we lost last spring and mention her now and then. As for your sister–you know I feel that one intensely too.
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Thank you, Elizabeth. Yes, it is a grief we do share. Her parents love her tremendously so there is no questioning how much love she will get through this sad experience.
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It’s so hard to let a beloved pet go. I am grateful that we’re able to do that, easing them into special memories. And remembrances past — they bring weight to our memories, as we miss family members and friends who were lost too soon.
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Those are very difficult things to have to process, Maggie. I am sorry.
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Thank you, Dan. I appreciate your kindness.
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I’m sorry that you had so much sadness yesterday. I’m sure your daughter will love your drawing; that’s such a sweet offering.
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Thank you for your kindness. The drawing was well received and my granddaughter loved it.
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So very sorry for your loss. I’m glad the picture helped with the healing.
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Thank you. ❤️
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