This morning as I read U.S. headlines, the phrases and words were daunting: reign of destruction, unchained, unhinged, unpredictable, fear, sociopath, and crisis. Wow. That’s a lot of fear and dread going into the most sacred of Christian holidays. These words were all to describe the political environment and do not even touch on the reality of this pandemic fog we live in.
Jesus was not born into pristine and welcoming times. War and revolt were commonplace. Joseph and Mary had to travel to Bethlehem to be accounted for in the census required by Caesar Augustus. After the birth of Jesus, they became refugees and fled to avoid the “Slaughter of the Innocents” by Herod the Great.
If you do not believe Biblical accounts of the events, historic accounts of those times depict horrific events. Not easy times, but in some strange way it left me with a sense of peace. It left me remembering we have survived trying times over and over throughout history. Living our best lives and being kind in a not-so-kind world is a powerful way to celebrate the birth of Christ.
I think back to the last Christmas I spent with my father in the Valley. On Christmas Eve, everyone came to evening church services where they received one white candle. There was no preaching, only singing of hymns. Afterward, everyone walked to the altar in silence, lit their candle, and then exited the church in silence. Many walked home carrying their candle, shining light into this small, perhaps insignificant to some, corner of the world. This night reminds me I do not need to gather en masse to pay reverence on Christmas. One single candle is sometimes enough.
Enjoy this season. Smile at the festivity. Find peace in your own belief system. Be kind to others. Celebrate safely. Exercise self-care and protect the vulnerable in your circle. Decreasing your dosage of apocalyptic journalism might make your holiday a little brighter.
These are definitely good days to remember the meaning of Christmas, all that we have been through and all the blessings we have.
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Definitely, Dan. I try to always remember how blessed we have been.
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Whenever it gets too bad, I look back to the life my mother lived in London during WW2. It will never be anything as bad as that for me.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I cannot even imagine what she must have endured, Pete.
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This was so lovely, Maggie it made me cry.
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I am touched you found value in my post, Mary.
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Warm and wonderful advice, Maggie.
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Thank you, Don.
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A beautiful post Maggie, I agree with what you are saying but I feel there is another lesson here. If we can get past these strange times perhaps we can learn to love each other more. Appreciate eachother more and get together as families and friends more for no reason more than love and fun. The big season festivals are nothing compared to being kind everyday…. I hope I have not put everyones back up 💜💜💜
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I applaud your message and I agree. I hope this brings love and respect for one another.
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Would that be lovely if something positive could come out of all this fear, grief and worry. Be safe and happy 💜💜💜💜
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Thank you, Willow. I hope you enjoy a lovely Christmas.
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Thank you Maggie, different but good 💜
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what a lovely post, Maggie. you put it all together so beautifully. thank you. i read it twice. Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones!
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Beautiful and wise words. Love and miss you.
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Love and miss you, too!
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Reblogged this on and commented:
……………. I know we had all hoped this Christmas season would be different, but we again find ourselves in trying times. Given the situation, I thought this post was worth reblogging. I wish you all a peaceful and blessed holiday no matter your belief system. Above all, love one another and stay safe. Merry Christmas from our home to yours.
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Thank you for this lovely post Maggie. I always try to remember that for every idiot, naysayer, extremist, terrorist, scammer, criminal, or any other negative person in the world, there are thousand, millions, of decent folk trying to earn an honest living, trying to love and be loved. Goodness will prevail.
May I wish you, and everyone, peace, contentment, and good health and, maybe, a little bit of magic and bliss!
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Merry Christmas, Maggie. Poignant post.
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